Category: News


Source: Complex News

If you don’t trust someone, then your interaction with them should reflect that lack of trust or knowledge of her. Yet, remember not to close yourself off by not getting the whole story. If you choose the right folks to be a part of your inner circle, life can be a beautiful thing.~Natalie Lue

It is important that the athlete have an inner circle of family and friends that he can truly trust. An athlete may need to delegate relocation, money, or other family issues, and those handling those matters need to have the athlete’s best interest at heart as well as follow his lead instead of following their own agenda.

For an athlete to consider anyone above reproach could be a fatal mistake. It is just as easy for a family member to steer the athlete wrong as Joe Smoe from down the street. And steering someone wrong does not lend itself to just financial decisions; it includes career direction, second career choices, physical conditioning, love, and just life decisions in general. Jack Johnson’s financial future was placed in jeopardy by his parents, Johnny Manziel’s career by his associates and friends, Maria Sharipova by her medical team, and the list goes on and on.

This past week, three UCLA basketball players were arrested in China for shoplifting. These players should have known better. . . . Whether it was peer pressure, a prank, a dare, or sheer greed, now these young men are facing up to 10 years in prison in China. Diplomats and other United States officials will now have to get involved to help resolve the issue. These young men risked their freedom, safety and future over sunglasses. The question begs on whether these young men had the proper people in their inner circle.

Teammates are teammates, but they cannot always be part of one’s inner circle. Sometimes after the game or practice, one has to divorce himself from the team to ensure a brighter future. The same goes for family and friends. One hopes their advice is in one’s best interest, but sometimes it isn’t. Sometimes, it comes from a place of manipulation or self-interest. As the writer of the blog, Baggage Reclaim, states:

Family doesn’t automatically qualify for being within your ‘inner circle’ unless you have the high degree of trust with each family member. You can love a family member but they may be further out in your circle (you trust them but you would be cautious over certain things or you just know your limits) and… some family members may be out of the circle because they repeatedly bust boundaries although they may feel that they’re entitled to ‘inner circle’ status.

If you don’t trust someone, then your interaction with them should reflect that lack of trust or knowledge of her. Yet, remember not to close yourself off by not getting the whole story. If you choose the right folks to be a part of your inner circle, life can be a beautiful thing. If you decide you chose wrong, just divorce yourself from them.


Source: Fortune

In the past 48 hours, several UCLA basketball players were arrested in China for shoplifting. Unfortunately, the comment was made that the situation is not a big deal. Little do these guys know how big of a deal it is. One is because China’s judicial system is not as kind as the United States’ system, and also because the media is going to have a field day with these players attitudes and behavior.

In response to the media attention, one basketball player’s father, LaVar Ball, stated, “He’ll be fine. Everyone’s making it a big deal. It ain’t that big a deal.” Mr. Ball, the outspoken CEO of athletic apparel maker Big Baller Brand.Well, is a former NBA player. Mr. Ball perhaps you should learn now what you should have learned while in the NBA on how to deal with the media properly. So, here’s a #ThursdayThrowback (#TBT) article for you and anyone else with aspirations to play in professional sports before you get bad advice for one of your parents:

“I wanted to ask Boyle about his terrific career a couple of weeks ago, but he was too busy carrying out his classless, planned, pathetic personal attack on a reporter. So, bye. Grade: D.”~Rick Carpiniello

The above statement demonstrates the seriousness of how the media perceives an athlete. The media can either become an ally or an enemy for a player, so a player wants to be careful how she treats the media. Further, an athlete could find herself in difficult waters if she fails to meet league or sponsor’s expectations regarding interaction with the media.

In 2014, Marshawn Lynch was fined $100,000 for not making himself available to the media after the Seattle Seahawks-Kansas City Chiefs game. The $100,000 was actually the combination of two separate $50,000 fines; one that was imposed in 2013 for not meeting with the media and a new one for his current violation.

According to the NFL’s media office, “The NFL Media Policy mandates that players must be available to the media during the practice week at the team facility and in the locker room following all games. Star players, or other players with unusually heavy media demands, must be available to the media that regularly cover their teams at least once during the practice week in addition to their required postgame media availability.”

Lynch spoke to a couple of reporters via the phone after the Chiefs game, but that was not enough to satisfy the League. Trying to avoid another fine, Lynch had a 50 word interview after the Seahawks-Arizona Cardinals game as can be seen below.

The idea that an athlete has to speak to the media is troubling especially in light of the numerous complaints pundits and officials within the League and on teams have with guys speaking their mind on social media. If a guy says something others disagree with, then the guy receives unnecessary media attention and is the bad guy.

Most athletes do not want to be bulletin board material. And some athletes prefer their privacy. Most importantly, sometimes, a player has a bad day either on or off the field. The expectation that an athlete has to make himself available after a game–especially if he played horribly or was hurt–can be terribly insensitive. But it is a journalist job to get the interview in every situation.

Hence, there are interviews like Marshawn Lynch’s. While it gave journalists something to chuckle at, there was really wasn’t anything said where a journalist could use in a story. The NFL cannot be upset; the obligation was met. Yet, from the outside looking in, it appears that interview was a waste of time.

Last month, the St. Louis Blues lost to the San Jose Sharks in the NHL’s Stanley Cup Western Conference Finals. The guys were devastated, and in a remarkable stance, Coach Ken Hitchcock allowed the players time to grieve before interacting with the media.

Perhaps, there should be more flexibility in the NFL as well as other league’s media policy to avoid wasting everyone’s time. Until then, here are few pointers to keep an athlete out of trouble with the media, fans and more importantly, the league:

⦁ Never attack a member of the media even when provoked-try not to take things personally;
⦁ Allow designated player association personnel to speak about labor disputes-some version of “no comment” works well in this situation;
⦁ Stay humble and think before you speak;
⦁ Make supportive statements about teammates and players associations without lying;
⦁ If you get caught in a sticky situation, accept responsibility;
⦁ Remember the media will either be your ally or your enemy;
⦁ What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas–the same is true of the locker room;
⦁ Zip the lips–avoid gossip (off the record comments), lies, omissions, and do not over share information;
⦁ Prepare for interviews;
⦁ Be professional, respectful and engaging when interviewing;
⦁ Know your brand and be yourself; and
⦁ Be thankful for the opportunity to be interviewed–someone else would love to be in your shoes.

If you still feel uncomfortable interviewing, seek assistance from a retired journalist or press agent. Further, do not forget to learn the language, or hire an interpreter, for the land that interview will take place.