#TBT: The Ugly Side Of The Business

Sports can be medicine, but they can also devastate someone’s life. On one hand, sports can motivate society to change, to learn to evolve and grow. Then, there is the other hand where sports cause some to believe they are so powerful over others they become seduced into thinking nothing can happen to them for… Continue reading #TBT: The Ugly Side Of The Business

Sports can be a tool toward social change, but there are some sports where the players shy away from controversy. After having a conversation with a 2L (second year law student) who interns with both a NHL and a MLB team about this subject, I felt more confusion about this subject than understanding. Was this due to white privilege or the fear of that privilege? Or, could it just be the lack of understanding of social-economic politics? Is it apathy? Have we as a society grown so accustomed to ignoring the needs of others in the pursuit of our own selfish desires?

Who cares right? Or, maybe you’re thinking I’m just trying to cause problems, eh? Well, no, the problems already exist and I’m looking for solutions. There’s a saying–you’re either part of the solution or part of the problem. This discourse is a search for solutions.

I’m mandated to find a solution . . . to help my fellow man and hold those who are wrong accountable even after forgiveness. See, I am a dislocated athlete who is a Christian. I’m not perfect although I tend to hold myself and others to an impossible standard set by Jesus Christ.And being that Christian athlete, I know according to ­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­1 Thessalonians 5:11 and Romans 15:4 that I am to assist my fellow man with his trials while encouraging yet holding him accountable for his failings. That in itself is an impossible task that must be done, and so I begin this discourse, once again, to seek answers and careful thought. . . . How do I as a Christian athlete go about effecting social change?

So to gain understanding, I ask myself if I am allowed to be apathetic or blinded by my own desires as a Christian athlete? The answer is no. Proverbs 6:6 (NIV) says “Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise.” Further, the Bible says in Revelations 9:20b (NIV) “that they should not worship devils, and idols of gold, and silver, and brass, and stone, and of wood: which neither can see, nor hear, nor walk.”

Okay, those were the easy questions to answer. But what about having privilege or being afraid to say or do something for fear of backlash? God, aka Yaweh or Allah (and I mean that with sincerest respect), gives us influence to improve the lives of others as well as ourselves.

Take a look at the lives of Joseph and Esther, also known as Haddassah, for example. Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers, imprisoned and then promoted to the rank of Viceroy–the right hand man of Pharoh–by the Lord to save the lives or the Egyptians and the Israelites (Jews). Esther, a young Jewish girl, was taken from her home and thrown into a harem only to be promoted to Queen of Persia. As queen, Esther was able to save her people from the jealous and greedy Haman.*

So, as a Christian athlete, I am compelled to follow in the steps of my Lord, Jesus Christ. I am required to seek justice for those who cannot seek it for themselves. The field, the court, the ice, the diamond and the pitch are my stage of influence. I have to answer to God for not doing good . . . for my hesitation to stand for what’s right even if it costs me my reputation. Jesus lost his reputation so that I may live life more abundantly, and I am required to at least try to represent Him to the best of my abilities.

To turn a blind eye to domestic violence, sexual assault, police brutality, homelessness, bullying at all levels, inequality and human trafficking is unacceptable. Jesus would not do that, and I represent Him. Therefore, I guess I have come to the understanding that despite what my other fellow Christian athletes may do, I am going to use my stage of influence to show the world who Jesus is. To paraphrase Cain, I am my brother’s keeper.

*While the Qu’ran doesn’t mention Esther, it does mention Joseph’s (Yusuf) story, and many of Islamic faith do believe in the story of Esther. The story of Esther is found in the Megillah whereas Joseph’s story is found in the Torah for those who practice Judaism.

Since 2008, the Arthur Ashe Courage Award, aka the Arthur Ashe Award for Courage or Arthur Ashe Courage and Humanitarian Award, is presented as part of the ESPY Awards. The Award is named for the American tennis player, Arthur Ashe, to those whose contributions “transcend sports”. According to ESPN, the organization which presents the Award, “recipients reflect the spirit of Arthur Ashe, possessing strength in the face of adversity, courage in the face of peril and the willingness to stand up for their beliefs no matter what the cost.”

This year the women who suffered at Michigan State University’s Dr. Larry Nassar won the prestigious award for their courage, persistence and resilience off the field as well as on the field. Nassar, who is not worthy to be called a doctor for a doctor swears to do no harm, sexually assaulted over 100 women during his tenure at MSU. Nassar could have destroyed these young ladies, but they excelled on the field and in life despite Nassar.

These brave ladies banded to together and consistently complained until a prosecuting attorney finally took their stories seriously. They survived this ordeal together like so many other women struggling during this #MeToo movement. Over the past year, they have given hope to those who have lost hope while facing sexual assault and harassment. And not just to women, but to men like Terry Crew and Ike Reese as well.

And Reese is right, we did need to watch the Arthur Ashe Courage Award together last night. Further, we need to keep discussing this topic until everyone understands that harassment and sexual assault is not acceptable and will not be tolerated. The sentiment that sports is medicine is repeated over and over again in this blog, because it’s true and last night was a big helping of it.

We need to listen to what our children, friends, colleagues and even enemies are telling us. It may be ugly but that doesn’t mean it isn’t the truth. If someone had listened, really listened, to those young ladies year after year, then Nassar could have been stopped. We know over 100 ladies were assaulted, but how many more are still too ashamed to come forward . . . and what damage has been done to their lives?

The journalist/suffrage/anti-lynching activist known as Ida B. Wells said, “The way to right wrongs is to turn the light of truth upon them.” These young ladies have shed a light on the truth and survived together. Now it is up to us to do the same and prevent Nassar’s behavior from happening to another soul.


Source: ESPN

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